Never, never doubt
what no one is sure about.
-Willie Wonka
The thirteen moral virtues listed by Benjamin Franklin in his Autobiography:
1. Temperance. Eat not to Dullness. Drink not to Elevation.
2. Silence. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself. Avoid trifling Conversation.
3. Order. Let all your Things have their Places. Let each Part of your Business have its Time.
4. Resolution. Resolve to perform what you ought. Perform without fail what you resolve.
5. Frugality. Make no Expense but to do good to others or yourself: i.e. Waste nothing.
6. Industry. Lose no Time. Be always employ’d in something useful. Cut off all unnecessary Actions.
7. Sincerity. Use no hurtful Deceit. Think innocently and justly; and, if you speak, speak accordingly.
8. Justice. Wrong none, by doing Injuries or omitting the Benefits that are your Duty.
9. Moderation. Avoid Extremes. Forbear resenting Injuries so much as you think they deserve.
10. Cleanliness. Tolerate no Uncleanness in Body, Clothes or Habitation.
11. Tranquility. Be not disturbed at Trifles, or at Accidents common or unavoidable.
12. Chastity. Rarely use Venery but for Health or Offspring; Never to Dullness, Weakness, or the Injury of your own or another’s Peace or Reputation.
13. Humility. Imitate Jesus and Socrates.
Also…
The Morning Question, What Good shall I do this Day?
The Evening Question, What Good have I done today?
Taken from the movie Rocky Balboa
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Time spent wondering why you do things is wasted energy. That is to say that questioning why you are somewhere other than where you are doesn’t serve you in any beneficial way. Most of the time, when you are honest with yourself, those types of questions are just about beating yourself up. That energy is better spent understanding where we are in the present.
Anytime I start to focus on non-productive questions, I am wasting energy. That is to say, when I focus on something other than adding to my reality, I waste energy focusing on illusion. The other side effect is that my mind gets trapped in a cycle of looking for someone or something to blame for my lot. This traps me in a reality where I am a victim to my surroundings. Acceptance is the key to breaking from these debilitating cycles of self-indulging self-destruction.
Once I break free of negative cycles, I can start to move forward. This starts with the questions that I ask myself. It starts by accepting my surroundings and myself as reality. Once I accept my reality, my path becomes clearer.
Today, I will accept where I am at and who I am.
Who are you to play small? What does it really get you to not step into all that you can be? Most people spend their lives fitting into molds that someone else set for them. They come upon moments where they can live in their brilliance but because of what they believe others would think of them, they don’t act on them. Many times it may also be about comfort. Excellence can sometimes cause people to feel uncomfortable.
There are others who surround themselves by people who expect greatness. These people are thrust into great situations. They test their metal against all kinds of situations. They grow from them, and then they move on to greater things. These people live for the uncomfortable moments. These are the people we follow. These are very well sometimes the people that we aspire to be.
Today, I will take advantage of any chance to lead an extraordinary life. I will live outside of my comfort zone.